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Translate this page Temecula singer-songwriter Bipsy killedFriday, February 20th, 2009 Issue 08, Volume 13.
Last Thursday, one of Temecula’s most brilliant artistic minds was murdered. Her name was Elizabeth Kellenbarger Amirian, but those who knew her called her Bipsy. According to police reports, she was stabbed to death in a minivan on the third floor of The Promenade mall’s parking structure by Pala resident Mickey David Beauchamp Wagstaff. Wagstaff was Bipsy’s fiancé. The motivations for the murder are still unknown. According to police officials, an officer witnessed the murder while patrolling the parking structure. When the officer ordered Wagstaff out of the vehicle, he refused. So police broke in the back window of the van and used a taser to knock Wagstaff out. The police then arrested him. Bipsy died at the scene. "I am still so shocked," said Janet Gorman, a concertgoer and friend since high school choir. "She only spoke about how happy she was with [Wagstaff]. She lit up when speaking of him. She spoke of him as being a wonderful man."
Her music Fans knew Bipsy for her graceful virtuosity on the piano, her airy, angelic voice and thoughtful lyrics. On any given weekend, Bipsy – who got her nickname from a nanny when she was a child – could be found playing open mic nights at various coffee shops from Temecula to Escondido. Tori Amos and Kate Price inspired her playing, she said, and it showed. Most of her songs were somber but crystalline and graceful, like someone might hear in a dream. Her songs were in minor keys and accompanied only by her voice. Much of her music conveyed her deep, unconventional kind of spirituality. Bipsy was a Christian but a great admirer of Jewish culture. This shows in her song "Hatikvah," Israel’s national anthem, and in "Feast of Tabernacles," which Bipsy wrote after reading the Book of Nehemiah for the first time. She had been recording a full-length album bit by bit for more than three years. The album was to be titled "BattleCry." Bipsy posted a blog on Jan. 13 saying she was in the production stage of the album and would finally release it this month. "Can you sense my excitement as i type, can you feel it!!! [sic]," she wrote. She wrote and produced the album herself, she said during conversations last year, and planned to sell it at her live performances. In an interview in July 2007, she said the years during which she wrote the album – 2005 to 2007 – were the most difficult of her life. Plans for a tour, which she had put together herself, had fallen apart. For most of that time she had worked two jobs. And during that period, her marriage had ended in a divorce. Writing music helped her get through it, she said, and it was the only constant in her chaotic life.
Her life Bipsy grew up in the back of an art studio. Her father, Acop "Jack" Amirian, ran a Advertisement "That had a huge impact on my life," Bipsy said in 2007. The family’s home was attached to Acop’s art studio, so Bipsy was constantly surrounded in her father’s work. "I grew up around art. I loved watching my father paint his battle scenes," she said. "When I couldn’t sleep at night, I would come and watch him paint, because he’d paint all night." Despite living in an environment alive with creativity, Bipsy’s home life was repressive and stifled. She blamed her father for this, saying he was abusive and controlling. "[The Amirian children] didn’t really have a normal life," she said. "We weren’t allowed to really do anything outside of home. We couldn’t do anything extracurricular; we weren’t allowed to have friends outside of school. We couldn’t go to people’s houses or anything like that… My mom couldn’t leave the house, talk on the phone, have any friends or get her driver’s license." This "isolated existence" is part of the reason Bipsy got so good at playing the piano, she said. "I didn’t have the normal diversions of childhood," she said. For some reason, playing the piano came naturally to Bipsy. In 2007, she talked about the first time she ever touched a piano. "I went with my dad to a Radio Shack and there was a keyboard. I started playing and a big crowd gathered around me because I was playing songs I had heard on the radio," she recalled. After that day, she was in love with the idea of playing the piano. She begged her father for piano lessons, but he refused. "It wasn’t because we couldn’t afford it," Bipsy said. "I think it was just because of his whole mentality that children weren’t meant to be heard and women shouldn’t be out in public." Then Bipsy remembered her mother had an old broken keyboard tucked away in a dusty corner of their home. So she got it out and, trying to repair it, gave herself an electrical shock. "That’s how desperate I was [to play it]," she said. Bipsy spent her life perfecting her already prodigious piano playing skill so she might do justice to the God to which she dedicated her life. "If only i had the talent to fully give Him the praise He is due," Bipsy wrote in a blog on her MySpace page. "At least i will have eternity to play and sing more skillfully when he returns [sic]." Her music is still online at www.myspace.com/beatnikbipsy. In addition, several videos of her performances are available on Youtube.com by typing "Bipsy" in the search bar. A memorial service for Bipsy will take place at 4 p.m. on Feb. 20 at Community Church of the Valley at 27570 Commerce Center Dr. in Temecula. For more information, call the church at (951) 676-3007. The pastor has asked attendees to make a donation to the church rather than buy flowers, which he said will go to funding Bethel Mission in India. To comment on this article online, visit www.myvalleynews. 42 comments
Her memorial service was an amazing tribute to our Lord Jesus. She was an amazing child of God and will always be remembered for that. I pray that her music will live on and inspire people as it inspires me to live more for Christ. Kim B.
im frm pala lived here my whole life of 27 years never ever seen this guy before
Bipsy was and is the most unique and amazing person i've ever had the chance to know. i will miss her everyday forever.
religion was what this murder was all about. i wish people would open their eyes and quite being so blind.
i went to bible college with her about 8 years ago... it just doesnt make sense to me...
Bipsy IS my little sister. She was always cooler than me and made sure I knew it. i will never stop getting to know her.
i knew her as well as i could. my brother was her brother dorm at TBI. she use to come over to our house and spend hours with my mom and doing her clothes... we had the funnest time when we all went to astroworld. then the next year i was 1st year and didnt talk to her much but she was stil in contact with my mom. my mom was truly heart broken about this. i dont understand how you can be so close to someone and not realize that they have this WHOLE other side to them. (her fiance) you will be missed dearly my love. see you when i get there. hold a spot for me in that AWESOME choir!
There's two sides to every story. NO ONE knows what made Mickey snap. He was very much in love with Bipsy. It's a sad story because both families lost loved ones. All we can do is pray for the loved ones of this tragic occurance.
I personally could never harm someone I love and especially to do what he did is insane. My daughter was good friends with Bipsy and her heart is broken along with everyone else who knew and loved her. There are two sides but one side is alive and one was taken from us.
You know, that's infuriating. my mother reads these. Yes, there ARE two sides to every story, but in THIS case, one side is DEAD, isn't she? Mickey Wagstaff murdered my sister, was caught red-handed stabbing her, so I really don't care to hear his side. But, wow, wouldn't it be so enlightening to hear how she deserved to be kidnapped in her own van, tied up, raped, and stabbed like, a hundred times? Maybe we can all LEARN something!
I knew Bipsy and loved her and her music. My son was the best man when she married Dax. I also videotaped their wedding. They were to my house a few times. Bipsy played and sang at our holiday party a few years ago and she mesmerized everyone. She was a kindred spirit. Her music was so beautiful and haunting. She was awesome and I am so heartbrokern over this I can barely breathe. I can only imagine how her family is feeling. I pray for all of you so much. My husband felt the same way about her and he also is very upset. She touched our hearts in a way very few people can. I am sorry people enter hurtful things. You need to listen only to the good. No matter what, Bipsy did NOT deserve this!! Helen, please let your Mom read this one. I emailed Isaac and told him how we feel. I don't have an address to send you a card. So, know that there are people out there that loved her and we are thinking of you and feeling your pain. All our Love and sympathy, John and Sue
"Two sides to every story?" Bipsy was stabbed in the back, repeatedly, and did not even see it coming. When someone rapes AND kills, I think we already know his side of the story and his motivation. And BB, religion was not the reason for someone being raped and killed. Get a clue or don't talk about things you know absolutely nothing about. This guy broke about 25 different Bible rules. It's really sickening how certain members of the anti-religious crowd think that people should not live by God's rules and are nothing more than evolved animals, then when a person acts like an animal and disobeys the Bible, they think they can blame "religion" somehow. If he had been any kind of Christian, this simply wouldn't have happened.
Isaac, May God bless you my friend and comfort your family during this time. You do know that any capital murder case in the State of California always has to have a trial according to state law. So, we will all have to endure going through this and re-living this event. Stay strong and focused on our Lord for he is great and merciful to those who trust in Him! I hope you know who this is and that you didn't lose my number. Brotherly love to you and yours! K-
Issac, I knew Bips from TBI (she was one of the two that I could always be found with, Gina being the other), she spoke of you fondly. At the beginning of January I contacted her about some music, she graciously allowed me the rights to use "Beautiful" on my photography website, I am so grateful to have a part of her. I am heartbroken at what happened, your family is fervently in my prayers. Jehovah will carry you through this. I partially agree with the commenter that blamed religion. Religion has the whole world screwed up. It is only a deep seeded relationship with our savior that can and will save you.
Good point Ellie. Religion can potentially be terrible. It can be used to exalt oneself and make a person arrogant and encourage them to look down on the less "holy" who don't follow their religoin's dictates. A real Christian knows that he or she is lost and wicked without the Savior and lives a life based on grace and celebration of God's forgiveness that leads to real love. If the killer knew Jesus he could have loved my sister and let her leave him without snapping and killing her because of his lust.
I grew up in the same town with the Amirians. Melody and I are so saddened and shocked by this news. Bipsy was always an exceptional person...but Helen don't underestimate your coolness! I'm sorry for your loss.
I loved Bipsy. She went to my church and sang and blessed us with her music. I miss her so much. B-Age 14
This is a sad story. He must have been on drugs, or else was a horrible person. I'm thinking the former. Either way, it is totally his fault so don't even think about his side of the story.
Bipsy is a friend of a friend. She inspires me to live a more set apart life to Yeshua. “YHWH bless you and guard you; YHWH make His face shine upon you, and show favour to you; YHWH lift up His face upon you, and give you peace.” (Num 6:24-26)
Isaac. I am not from the anti religion crowd, I am just sick of kids not being able to make their own choices because of their parents beliefs. When god and religion are shoved down your throats everyday and you are able to make your take responcability for your own actions because you put everything in gods hands we have a problem. Grow up Isaac, Im not saying religion is the reason she was raped and killed. It is the reason he and kids like him are confused.
I remember Bipsy from New Covenant Fellowship. What a beautiful young lady she was. My husband enjoyed talking to her about Armenian things because he was also Armenian things. I just found out yesterday that it was Bipsy. My heart is so sad for her family. My condolences go out to you, her family. She is now in heaven with our Father. Rest in Peace sweet Bipsy.
i knew them both and i would have never thought mickey could do that. i wish we could have some answers, he actually was telling me how he weas going to propose to her and how much in love he was. i just cant wrap my head around this.
Thanks everybody...I feel like so many people are trying to get in touch with me as though by knowing me they will get a part of Bipsy back. Well know that we are nothing alike. And that I get your good intentions but I dont have a lot of emotion to spare for anyone at this time. If you would like to share with me about her...that would actually help me more. Those hardest years for her were years I barely saw my sister. And it is hitting me very hard that I dont HAVE a sister anymore. My brothers still do...but I am no Bipsy. I am not even a Christian. And no...this has not scared me back into believing. I was scared out of believing ten years ago. If you want to help this hurting world lets work on eliminating the selfishness that perpetuates acts like these...the real reason true love is disappearing.
Mickey will have to answer to GOD all almighty someday. I hope someone in prison does him in like what happened to the great Jeffrey Dalmer, kill the SOB. I am tired of my tax dollars paying for these dead beats. May his deceased girlfriend rest in peace.
bipsy was truely a gifted girl when i knew her and i only wish i'd have kept in touch.isaac and helen thanx for being so kind to me and letting me be all awkward around you all.i still remember when we were all wilder and in many ways more innocent.i only hope you guys still remember me.i still have an old poem written by bipsy if you guys would like to have it.www.myspace.com/mmisfitx .id love to hear from you guys. ![]()
bipsy was truely a gifted girl when i knew her and i only wish i'd have kept in touch.isaac and helen thanx for being so kind to me and letting me be all awkward around you all.i still remember when we were all wilder and in many ways more innocent.i only hope you guys still remember me.i still have an old poem written by bipsy if you guys would like to have it.myspace.com/mmisfitx .id love to hear from you guys,sorry for the repeat
By the way, since some of you who knew Bipsy from years back seem to be reading this...it's cool to hear from you. Bipsy's life completely changed when she became a Christ-follower. She quit drugs, getting drunk, being depressed, etc. and started making a huge difference in the world. Her music is just one small piece of it. Her idea of a good weekend was to round up toys and drive to TJ and give them to kids...she lived more in her short life than most people do in a hundred years. Some of you wouldn't even recognize Bipsy if you saw her in her last years...she just glowed. She was never shy about telling her story, you can read it today on her myspace. ![]()
BB, you are still not making any logical sense. Ranting or telling people to "grow up" doesn't count for anything I'm afraid. And you should show some respect in this situation. If my sister hadn't been "confused" by faith in Christ, she wouldn't have lived past the age of 15. I speak as someone who actually knows the people involved. Whatever your strong opinions are about religion, you should be wise enough to know not to jam your opinions into the middle of conversations about people whom you don't know. It's rude.
mickey was such a breath of fresh air, i dont get what happened... i have no hate or judgement for him, merely sympathy. nobody should be able to judge him for you were not there. only to good Lord should know what has happened. My condolences to Elizabeth and her family. I am sorry for your loss. still no reason to hate.
ABrown, there were witnesses and a confession. Be thankful that the "judgement" of society separates you and your family from a few of the sick, evil people in the world--Mickey included. "What happened" was that Wagstaff raped and murdered Bipsy. I wouldn't normally bother responding to such simple-minded nonsense but calling him a "breath of fresh air" is just too much.
Yes, only the Lord knows what happened that day...the Lord and the sherrif that caught Mickey red-handed, (literally,) stabbing her repeatedly, in broad daylight, in public, in the back of her own van...where she was tied up, having been kidnapped days earlier...there could be any number of secenarios. What planet did you grow up on, ABrown?
To the Amirian family: I cannot think of the words that would provide the comfort I wish I could give you. I am sorry for the pain you have felt, and I have pain of my own. I went to Chaparral High School with Bipsy and I saw her a couple of times since we graduated. We both performed in the talent show, and I will never forget her. She always had an outpouring of the Holy Spirit, and she was one of the few people in my life who had a positive effect in my Christian walk. I remember that I wanted to be more like her. She had a sincere love for the Lord, for everyone else, and she had the confidence to express it. The peace that Nikki had that Bipsy desired, was the same peace that I noticed in Bipsy in high school, and desired for myself. Nikki had the same effect on Bipsy that Bipsy had on me. I am so grateful that I had a chance to know her. I want you to know that she was one of the major influences in my life that help to get me saved and to strengthen my relationship with the Lord. I will never forget her. Love, Cassandra.
I knew bipsy from TBI she was a true insperation, and if im able to influince half of the number of people she influinced in her life ,in mine. it will be a blessing. let us all seze the moment and make the most of life just like she would want us to. ps sorry this is so late i just learned about this
I grew up with Mickey around my house every day. I thought i knew him inside and out. I was wrong. About a week before the murder i listened to both Mickey and Bipsy sing at a church, they seemed so happy. It was a shock to everyone to hear what had happened. My family still talkes to Mickey every now and then. He is in jail preaching the bible. He claims to have been possessed and does not remeber a thing about that day. I do not know what to believe, however i do know that he had controll over what he did and he will get what he desreves in Heaven.
Christians don't get possessed. He was still, apparently, able to drive for several days with my sister tied up in the back of the van. He's allowed to talk to people? He hasn't even had the nerve to stand trial yet. What utter bullcrap! I bet he wonders why poor little him wound up in jail, the little lamb. Not only do I not understand the entitled mentality of these spoiled little white men, but to add insult to injury, there's the people who sympathize with rapists, torturers, and murderers, even claiming to believe these people are Christians? God help us all.
This is the saddest story, Lord please help and heal Bipsy's family. Not even time can wipe out this kind of grief and loss, only an eternal God can help. However, as I know the ONE TRUE GOD, the Jewish Messiah of the world. He loved her so much to save her out of a world of destruction and now she is with Him forever and ever. I do believe Bipsy would want her family to go on and reach out to her God and Saviour that you would have the love and peace she had, plus, the fact that you would all be together again one day forever! There is only hope in a dark and dying world when you know Yeshua the Messiah! Lots of love, hugs and Shalom to you all.
I was bipsy's roommate in college and I can't stop thinking about her I still can't even erase her cell phone numbers from my phone... I miss her so much and think about her all the time. And I was reading some of the comments about Mickey saying he was a nice guy and a breath of fresh air How dare you say something like that on here when he out right murdered one of the most amazingly beautiful woman of God! It just. Makes me sick how ignorant people can be... May God be with the Family of Bipsy hugs! I love you bipsy----- your number one fan always!
I was Bipsy's friend for a long time. She was friends with my stepbrother years ago when I lived in fallbrook, and back in 2005 before I went to rehab I frequented "His Place Coffee House" where she worked. She gave me rides to church sometimes and helped give encouraging words to me while I was battling my demons. Her being gone left a hole in my heart, she was very special to me. I'm glad to be able to see her one day in heaven. I think we should pray for Mickey and his salvation, no matter how much hate exists towards him. There's nothing in this world that the blood of Christ does not cover. If anyone hates me for writing this, I'm okay with that. That man needs prayer, and none of us deserve salvation, Jesus freely gave it. It's not up to us who receives it and who doesn't. If you can stomach it, pray for him.
I have been thinking about Bipsy a lot lately. I have wondered what the courts have done, if anything. Does anyone know what is going on? I went to Texas Bible Institute with Bipsy, she lived across the hall from me. She was such a loving and happy lady. I looked up to her because she was so confident and she had awesome style. To Bipsy's family, I pray for you often.
I'm sorry but I've spent time with. mickey having bible study with him this year everyday in jail. He is so refreshing we took turns leading bible study . I'm deeply sadened 4 your loss . I m sorry about both famalies loses .
#34: If Mickey did kill Bipsy, and the evidence shows overwhelmingly that he did, he will not make it to heaven under ANY circumstance. God has reserved another place for killers - HELL. This is where killers go. NOT heaven.
This case shows that Satan is alive and well and was at least for a few moments in time-in Mickey. So sorry for both families but the Bible does say that all have fallen short of the glory of God and yes, there is forgiveness through Christ for even murderers but Mickey must ask for forgiveness, repent and can be saved. Let's pray for even his salvation--as true followers of Christ. Yes, there were two lives lost during this tragedy. Hopefully, one more will come to truly accept Christ as his savior. Elizabeth is surely in Heaven today. It was only about the evil that is always trying to undo Christ's followers--that was the religious connection. Rest in Peace Bipsy. May both families find the peace that only God can give you after this loss. |
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